The
painter Franz Klein once described Marilyn Monroe’s sexual luminosity as so
compelling that, “You thought if you bit her, milk and honey would flow from
her skin.” Her artistry was such that she could make any movement, any gesture
almost insufferably suggestive.
IF SHE’D LIVED,
WE WOULD HAVE CRUCIFIED HER
ANYWAY
Being that beautiful was enough. The problem
with Marilyn was that she was so much more. To consider her as a woman far
ahead of her time in terms of professional ambition, social activism, and
self-tutoring was inconceivable and unpermissable. Beauty was enough power for
one female. And in the minds of the studio system, the media, and the adoring
public, the most effective way to restrict that power was to limit it. First
worship it, then denigrate it. If you’re going to be beautiful, then you
must also be dumb.
IN OUR CULTURE, NO SIN IS
GREATER FOR A WOMAN THAN LOOKING OLD.
If
persecuting Marilyn for her incomparable sexuality in youth were not enough,
imagine the torment that would have been heaped upon her for the even more
egregious sin, the most unforgivable of all -- age. This week Marilyn would
have turned 88 years old, and if the ridicule lavished upon poor Kim Novak for
attempting to rise to Hollywood’s cosmetic standards in her dotage were not
cruel enough, consider how Marilyn, at this stage of life, would have been
crucified. For in our culture, no sin is greater for a woman (except for
perhaps murdering your children) than looking old.
I rather
doubt that Marilyn would have submitted to the surgical grotesqueries of
present day Hollywood. She used her beauty as a career-building tool in her
ambition to become a serious actress. The only cosmetic change she ever
underwent, at the urging of her agent Johnny Hyde, was the slight tweaking of
her nose, and it was, in fact, a harmonious – and courageous -- refinement.
Imagine the surgical risk she was taking in those days before cosmetic
procedures were either common or medically sound. But as in every aspect of her
life, Marilyn was willing to risk all to achieve her ambition.
Her body was made to covey pleasure, and she took no shame in
her natural luscious magnetism, despite even the lifelong abuses she had
suffered because of it. Many of her physical gifts were the result of hard won
anatomical command, having trained herself to suggest character with movement
and the organization of her supple frame. Naturally athletic, she understood
instinctively how to use her attributes. As a teenage bride, she had taken
lessons in bodybuilding from an Olympic trainer on Catalina Beach. Years later
she sought ways of accentuating and projecting her physical presence by
studying human bone and muscle structure. Throughout her career, she spent
hours in front of a mirror practicing at walking, gesturing, and controlling
her facial muscles.
Her
determination extended to creative control over her
work, an effort that was revolutionary for the time and made her the only star to have taken on the moguls and won. She
was also only the second woman (Mary Pickford was the first) to head her
own production company (her partner was the
photographer Milton Greene. Marilyn made certain she controlled 51 per cent of
the stock.) Marilyn’s successful negotiation of the Twentieth Century Fox
contract was one of the greatest single triumphs over a studio ever won by an
actress. “I’ll never tie myself to a studio
again,” she said. “I’d rather retire.”
Entirely
self-educated, Marilyn was a voracious reader of non-fiction and philosophy, being
as intent on developing her mind as her body. The feminist scholar Jacqueline
Rose has written that, “To read Monroe's fragments, letters, journals and poems
is to realise that, however tormented, she had another life. It is to be struck
by the unrelenting mental energy with which she confronted herself.”
While
it is abundantly clear how greatly she enjoyed the spotlight, she allowed
herself to become a spectacle of desire essentially because it served her
ambition. Had she remained healthy and been able to anticipate serious roles in
her future, she might have determined to maintain her acting career. But even
though she was still luscious, she was growing ever more difficult, and who
wants to bother with a difficult woman?
Actions
on behalf of her causes were what Marilyn considered the only advantages to her
tragic personal history. ”There were no benefits
except what it could teach me about the basic needs of the young, the sick and
the weak,” she said. “I have great feeling for all the persecuted ones in the
world.” Arthur Miller concurred. “Marilyn understood and wanted desperately to
please her audience…the most ordinary layer of the
audience, the working people, the guys in the bars, the housewives in the
trailers bedeviled by unpaid bills, the high school kids mystified by
explanations they could not understand, the ignorant and – as she saw them –
tricked and manipulated masses. She wanted them to feel they’d got their
money’s worth when they saw a picture of hers.”
From the beginning, Marilyn grasped the certain knowledge that
she had only herself to rely on, and early on had looked for answers and
understanding in religion, philosophy, and psychoanalysis. At the age of 18, she became a
Christian Scientist; in her twenties, she studied Anthroposophy, the highly progressive
philosophy espoused by Rudolf Steiner; she spent years subjecting herself to
the often brutal work of psychoanalysis. Before her marriage to Arthur Miller,
she converted, of her own volition, to Judaism.
The mental energy with which she confronted herself
was unrelenting.
Not one of these qualities and dimensions of Marilyn Monroe’s
life could even begin to compensate for the sin of aging that she would have
committed had she lived. Unforgivable, irredeemable, especially in an icon of
female sexuality. The patriarchy would refuse to allow her to be anything other than her
young, luminous self, and her sin, therefore, is a mortal one.
So who might a Marilyn withdrawn from the unforgiving media glare have
turned out to be? A Catherine Deneuve or Jeanne Moreau or Sophia Loren or a
Gina Lollobrigida living a life of sanctuary and grace? Europe, literary and discreet,
likely would have been a good place for her. But I think Marilyn would have
chosen a life more like
that of Bridget Bardot who turned her back on the slobbering burdens of youth
and sexiness to become a full-time advocate for her own passions (saving
near-extinct wild animal species and neglected and abandoned dogs).
Likely,
Marilyn would have sought out a spiritual teacher and let her heart do the
rest. For in a brief 36 years, she lived an indisputably mythic life. Indeed,
she might herself have become a mystic. But even if the Kennedys – or whoever –
hadn’t assassinated her, the patriarchy would have crucified her, an aging female immortal, anyway.
Happy Birthday MM,
and Rest in Peace. You surely deserve it.
Excerpted
from
BEYOND
BEAUTY
Musings
on Marilyn
c
copyright Laura Cerwinske, 2013
1 comment:
This is a great piece Laura. It greets me at a time in my life as I approach my sixties. Thank you so much for sharing.
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